Mums Needs

            + Family’s Needs

                + Mums Intuition – Brain Noise

                    + Reality Check + Knowledge

                            = What Action to Take

Here is a simple equation for working out how to have Fun being a Mum, and create a more contented family!

Step 1 – Is for her to consider her own needs.  Just like on an airplane where you put on the oxygen mask on yourself first before your children, because otherwise you might run out of air.  To do this, she will need clarity on her values, so that she knows what the priorities are and how to keep herself running above the red empty line.

Step 2 – Is to work out what the Family needs and see the difference between that and what they want!  Understanding our family’s (both children and partners) values, also helps us to motivate them when needed and negotiate win/win situations for all, thus reducing conflict.

Step 3 – Is to clear the Mum’s brain of the Worry, Fear and Guilt that clouds it.  Because the Mum always knows best, it’s just that sometimes she can’t hear herself, because she is so overloaded by ‘shoulds’!

Step 4 – By adding a reality check and a little knowledge into the mix, we can be sure that we are listening to the wisdom of the ages and not re-inventing the wheel.  Now that you have greater clarity, you’ll be able to go straight to the information that will help you, rather than wade through all sorts of parenting techniques and baby training systems.

Feel like you Both Speak Different Languages

Tired of Arguing/Nagging

Relationship missing Intimacy & Sparkle

Resenting the Financial Situation

Worried you may Separate or Divorce

Feeling Uncared For?

Truly Start To Understand Your Relationship
When people ask me whether they should stay together or split up, I always explain, that it takes the same amount of work to stay together as to separate.  This seminar will give you a fighting chance of staying together, whilst ensuring that if you split up, it will be more amicable.  Plus everything you learn is adaptable to other relationships in your life.

This seminar is perfect if one or both of you are about to start receiving coaching from me, or already have been for a while.  But it also stands on it’s own with no further input from myself, as it includes the most important aspects of my Relationships to Dance for Workbooks.

It covers -

1) How to be truly Caring and the “Law of Lesser Pissers”, plus where your Values do & don’t match.  We all think that we know how to be caring, but how often have you done things for your partner that they didn’t appreciate?  How often, do you get upset because you put your partner first and then wish you hadn’t.
2) Why you want your partner to be Empowered and not disempowered - There will always be power games within a relationship, but they can either add sparkle or suck it dry - which would you love to have?

3) A quick and easy way to rebalance your relationship with the Financial set-up in your partnership - Money, the cause of so much tension within a relationship, and the easiest way to bring back the sizzle and interest.

4) Invest in your partnership and give it solid foundations - There is a secret to making every relationship work perfectly for both of you.  Isn’t it worth having a go before lining the pockets of the lawyers and worrying about how to sell the house?